YOU NEED THE LOVE CANDLE^TM!!

Did You Know . . .
The first year of your marriage if you put a jelly bean in a jar every time you
made love, you would have a lot of jelly beans collected. The second year
of your marriage, if you took a jellybean out and discarded it every time you
made love, you would still have a lot of jellybeans collected!

Don't Feel Bad!
There are many reasons for this and The Love Candle can put an end to 95%
of them! With the passage of time, we get used to the rejection and the excuses
and the lack-luster - well... lust! The problem is that life often gets in the way of
two people being intimate as often as they'd like. At night, we have become victims
of our busy days and we have grown accustom to the pattern we've created.

"The primary reason why some couples lose interest in sex is that
the man feels rejected and the woman doesn't feel romanced..."
- Mars & Venus in the Bedroom: A Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion
- John Grey Ph.D. (Harper Collins, 1995)

Well Guess What?
There are people who have the same demanding schedules as you do and they
are making love. Not because they are penciling in on their calendar like
some therapists suggest. Making love shouldn't be just another task added to
the daily grind. It's so much more than that! It shouldn't have to be that the thought of
making love creates more anxiety or stress- then you've lost nearly all the benefits.

So What's the Answer?
Simply, it is that sex begets sex. It is a physiological and biological certainty!
When you make love, chemicals are released from the brain, higher hormone
levels are present- yada yada yada- next day it's pestering you- but it's
a good pester. What happens next is where most people go wrong.

COMMUNICATION.
You're both home from an exhausting day at work or with the kids all day,
maybe it was even a bad day, there is still a lot more to be done- dinner, kids,
homework, housework- whatever. When you climb into bed, that bug
comes back- What he's thinking- "from the sound of it, her day was equally
brutal. Besides, we just did it last night, she'd never go for it." What she's thinking-
"Eh, if he really wanted it, he could be more persuasive about it. If he's happy-
I'm happy." Goodnight. And so the routine goes on.

"The Promise"
The way to break that pattern and start a more positive one is through
The Love Candle. When you first began making love with each other you
were selfless. You wanted to please. You accepted a sexual suggestion willingly
and you were eager to comply, not for yourself, but for the benefit of the one
you love. And you were happy. By agreeing to "The Promise" and upholding
the covenant you make, you are recapturing that earlier time and those feelings
of confidence and contentment.

"The Confidence You Need"
Barring illness, 99% of the time lovemaking doesn't happen is not because
of the word "No." It's because of the indecision that follows the suggestion. All
of a sudden the mind fills with excuses or reasons why it shoudn't comply at this particular moment. it is a huge turn off to listen to these petty excuses. The ego
is directly affected and often the person who suggested love making is no longer
that "hip" on the idea. Even if it does happen at this point, the initial reaction of hesitance is subconsciously stored and the end result is not as passionate as it
might have been had both parties been ready, willing and able from the get go.
Attitude is everything.

Maybe your partner doesn't have the energy to convince you at night. Maybe
hearing the excuses repeatedly has caused him/her not to suggest as often as
they might like for fear of being turned away. In his book Mars and Venus
in the Bedroom, author John Grey Ph.D. explains: "Quite often a man will
feel defeated in sex because he mistakenly gets the message that
his partner is not as interested in sex."

The Love Candle is a confidence builder. It's liberating. Love making is
inevitable. There is no need to resist. The fear of rejection is gone and the only
thing you need think about is the beautiful experience that is about to happen
with the person to whom you are deeply in love with. The confidence you
create today in your relationship will serve you well tomorrow.

IT'S ALL ABOUT BRINGING COUPLES
CLOSER TOGETHER.